Thursday, 10 December 2015

Happy Christmas from Jane - 9-12-2015


Someone has e-mailed me asking what is the third often asked question that I referred to a few blogs ago, thanking me for the first two that I have now answered. I'll have to give some thought to that third one– not sure which one I had in mind at the time.

Meanwhile, yet another has e-mailed me saying he was surprised that I had as many as five offers of help in one morning of blind-simming. He very rarely has any, he says. Being a woman, no longer young, probably accounts for my offers. Shall I follow up his suggestion that I briefly describe the offers (all from women as I think I mentioned before)?

I'm not doing much in the way of outdoor activities nowadays. Here winter is setting in. Rain forecasts together with high winds and cold temperatures don't encourage me out and I've heard nothing from my bird-watching guide since he went to Australia at beginning of the year. We have each other's mobile* phone numbers (* 'cell' phone in US, I think?) and I've tried his from time to time and it doesn't even ring, presumably he's got another one for some reason (lost or stolen perhaps?) and he hasn't left any messages on mine. So that looks like the end of that contact and the outings, worse luck.

My brother Chris volunteers to take me to Eastbourne when he has morning meetings and leave me to my own devices blindsimming while he attends to business so, if I get the urge, I might take him up on the offer. He always his lunch with his work-mates there, so I would have to hang about for quite some time. Perhaps I could collect offers of help and report back!?

As nothing much happens on Wednesday mornings these days, for the sake of newer readers, I'll describe my Friday routine in a little more detail than in our website. Next time -after Christmas holiday that is.

Meanwhile, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year,

Jane.

Wednesday, 25 November 2015

Second of my answers to questions 25-11-2015




One aspect of blindsimming has raised a few similar questions (via my e-mail).

How did I manage on the bus? Didn't they expect that I would have a blind person's free bus pass?

Yes, I am asked by the occasional driver why I don't use it. Save me £3.50!

I have obviously looked into it, so at least I have a feasible answer. I'm not asked for it in the morning because the pass is not valid until 9.30am and I am well before that. I always have the £3.50 ready in exact change (as you might expect of a totally blind person, as I am!?) and similarly for the return trip. Otherwise, later in the day, I explain that since I had to pay for the outward journey earlier, I got a return being not much dearer that a single or perhaps I have forgotten to bring the pass. (Or I couldn't find it when I left etc.) This has been going on and accepted for so long now that I don't give it a thought any longer.

Except, curiouly enough, on the first of my new route trips a week or so ago.

When I got on the bus and asked for the further than usual stop, offering my £3.50, the driver pointed out it was an extra 'stage' and should cost an extra 60 pence. But never mind, he said, I could use my bus-pass (which I don't possess) for the extra 'stage' as it would then be after 9.30! Just go and sit down and forget about it, he said. Which I did, until I did get off when my conscience pricked me and I offered him the 60p - with my usual lame explanation. Well, he said, you're here now - next time perhaps!

Jane

Tuesday, 10 November 2015

First of my answers to your questions - 10-11-2015


Some of the questions (pertinent to last time's blog) are along the lines of whether I have a bad conscience about pretending to be blind when really blind people would be only to happy to be able to see and that I am taking advantage of all these kind people (five on my last outing!) who go out of their way to help me. Don't I sometimes feel at least 'inconsiderate'?



My answer is yes! I do have a bad conscience over this to some extent – certainly not a 'guilty conscience' though. I get the impression that such kind helpful people are the sort who enjoy helping others anyway. I have come across occasional non-helpful or only grudgingly helpful people, but not many.

Chris and I discussed this many years ago now after our blindsimming 'revival' – see our website journal - he feels the same and readily admits that he gets a certain 'kick' from blindfolding me and from guiding me around blindfolded (me, I mean, not him).

In our young days, we used to help out at the local school for blind children – again see our website journal – and later I developed a habit on Friday mornings, when I do my housework blindfolded and even now give fortnightly piano lessons to Lucy, another blindfold devotee, as I have my lunch still blindfolded. I tip out my purse, count all my loose change, put back just enough to see me over the week-end and the rest I put aside and take into the office the following Wednesday for my blindfolded office stand-in seession. I give the money to Chris, who adds the same sum and sends it off to that local blind-school (Dorton House, Sevenoaks) as a part of his firm's charitable giving budget (tax added for their benefit as you may well know?) Those charitable gifts assuage our bad consciences.

Two years ago, the school closed, just at the time we were developing my blindsimming walks down near the Sussex county town, and we now make our donations to the local blind peoples charity there in the same manner.



Answer to another occasional question next time



Jane.

Wednesday, 28 October 2015

from your soon-to-be blindfolded Secretary 28-10-2015


Yesterday – Tuesday's - weather forecast was for a bright sunny day, whereas today's was for a lot of rain which has turned out to be correct. As it is the end of October, I took advantage of yesterday's forecast to go on what will probably be the last outdoor blindsimming this winter. It turned out to be a good decision and I spent the morning and a lot of the afternoon going right round my new route as described last (and previous) weeks. I promised not to bore you further with descriptions of this but just to say that, being on my own – no brother Chris to help any more, I had help offered to me on five separate occasions! Three times by asking at bus stops and twice whilst sitting quietly having a cigarette. All by ladies!

This reminds me that I have been asked several times questions about my blindsimming over the web (see my e-mail address if you would like to do the same. They mainly fall into three repeating questions. One pertinent to what I have just described. I will try to answer these for all to read over the coming weeks.

Chris is peering over my shoulder, scarf in hand so I have to finish off for now,

Jane.

Wednesday, 21 October 2015

Last of my summer blindsimming outings. 21/10/2015


You may be relieved to read the last of my 'summer' blindsimming outings– great fun for me but I won't be surprised if you are all bored with it! I'll think up something different in future, suggestions, questions etc would be most helpful.



Last Thursday was indeed a nice day at last, lots of rainy days over previous week or so, but fine weather promised.



I left home soon after Husband had gone off to London as usual. Caught train to starting point again as usual. Then all as I described a couple of blogs ago for my unaccompanied blindsimming outing, (August 2015). Off the bus and walked, blind all the time since before I got on the bus, to the reservoir and after picnic lunch, back to the bus stop and onwards.



As before then, Chris met me (still blind) off the bus at the bus terminus. He had done some local research and was very pleased with the results, so that next time I can continue blindsimming in my totally blacked-out glasses when I arrive there - by myself.

From the bus terminus in the centre of the town, a town circular bus runs from there to the pier adjacent to the beach, from there onwards to the railway station and then back to the bus terminus. All I have to do, having got off the bus from my bird-watching trip, is to walk along the pavement to the very next bus shelter and make sure, by asking (at which I'm quite good these days) that I get on the correct bus, take the short ride to the stop by the pier. The pier had a disastrous fire last year destroying all the buildings on the pier. These are now being rebuilt and meantime one can walk along the pier quite safely – even for blind people!

Later on, I can catch the bus on the same route at the same stop, and go on to the railway station. Then, worse luck! I have to become sighted at make my way home by train.

We did all this as a trial run. In future, as always, if I get into difficulties, I can always just remove my blinding glasses. Unlikely to happen, I can assure you. I'm going to try it out as soon as the opportunity arises.

Jane

Wednesday, 7 October 2015

Wednesday 7th October 2015


Back from holiday.

We, husband and I, have been away for best part of a month so no blindfolding for me!

No blindfolded bird-watching outings,

No blindfolded secretarial sessions,

No blindfolded domestic Friday mornings,

No blindfolded piano lessons with Lucy.

I have on the other hand got in a lot of reading – Stella Rimmington, Donna Leon, John Grisham all whom I can recommend for a good read, and others, but none of those featured any blindfolded incidents. I shall have to write my own novels perhaps?

No visiting museums or churches with statues of Ecclosia and Synagogo as featured in our holiday a little while ago, see my blog 5th November 2014.

Worse still, on return last week-end, I don't seem to have had any calls from Tony, my bird watching 'guide' who went off to Australia for 6 months in the spring.

On the other hand, nice weather is forecast for tomorrow, so I will have a day out down to the usual blind-simming haunt. Husband being away back at work and Chris has just said he can easily arrange to meet me during the afternoon and make sure that I get home in time to get husband's dinner ready for him when he returns from his long day in London. I'll report next time.

Jane.

Wednesday, 2 September 2015

Blindsimming 02/09/2015


Unaccompanied blindsimming outing August 2015.



At last, you will think!

One morning last week, Chris being away on holiday anyway, I plucked up courage to do my new blindsimming route all alone, from home and back home again in time to prepare my husband's dinner in time for his return from work in London early evening.

Down to the railway station, then as in the old days, once I knew that husbands train had left to London. The weather wasn't being very kind – grey skies and spatterings of rain, so I had to take my old raincoat anyway. Supposed to be Summer now but as some of you in the UK know, we are having a disappointing summer.

The ticket I bought this time was different from usual as the plan was that I would return from a different destination than usual. Curiously, although further afield the price was not much more for the extra distance.

I broke my outward journey at my regular stop, put on my raincoat which I had been carrying in a what is nowadays called a Beach Bag (smart, larger than any handbag that I have, but smaller and smarter than a shopping-sized bag)) together with my foldable white stick, my two pairs of 'blind-looking dark glasses, a thermos of tea and some sandwiches for lunch. When blindsimming, I carry my mobile phone in a pocket and money tucked away somewhere where I won't lose it.



Why do I go into this sort of detail?

Because, of the few people who do read my blog, I assume that they are also blindsimmers and therefore interested in how I manage in detail on my blindsimming outings.

It would be nice to hear from a few more of you at 'me_blindfolded@yahoo.co.uk' of course – I do get a few questions which I am careful to answer in the blog entries – hence the detail.



Once clear of the station, I put on my non-blacked out glasses, unfolded my cane and using that as a guide as if I were already blind, put up my raincoat's hood and walked out of the town towards my regular bus-stop. Having made the last road crossing, (where a kind lady offered to help me back across again a week or so ago) I switched my glasses to the totally blind ones, again as usual, and made my well-known walk 10 minutes or so to the bus stop.

When we got to the new bus stop beyond the village and I made to get off, the driver remarked that 'my friend' was not there yet, would I be okay?, he asked. I assured him that the 'friend' would be along soon – just to put his mind at rest.

I managed the walk very well. It was the first time that I had been out alone like this without Chris or my bird-watching acquaintance, and I after a short while, I realised that I was really enjoying the experience. It was so quiet and for the first time I realised that, without the distractions of someone with me, I could hear the distant church clock striking the hours and half hours. This was most helpful. I didn't have to dial the time on my mobile for a start – expensive call anyway! And today, being by myself, I needed to know when to return down the lane to catch my bus – another new move. The buses are quite reliable. Today I was going to catch a later bus going in the same direction – not back the way I had come, thereby obviating the need to cross that main road whilst still blind. That bus went on to Eastbourne (where Chris went anyway after picking me up on the previous dry runs). Once in Eastbourne, I would revert to my 'sighted' self, go to the railway station and return home. The only concern was making sure that I was at the bus-stop itself when the bus came along. It was easier then I thought. The bus stop has a sign on a pole within a small lay-by with a decent kerb to it and I had practised locating it when I had got off the bus that morning. In the unlikely event of anyone having been there at that time, they would have thought me somewhat odd! It was all a marvellous day out for me and I look forward to doing it again when husband and I get back form our forthcoming holiday from next week onwards.

Don't expect anymore from me now until October.

Jane.

Wednesday, 19 August 2015

blindfolding time 3 o/clock, 19/08/2015


I haven't kept a personal diary since I was a young girl, and even then, I didn't write about blindfolding experiences – too afraid my parents would find it. However now I find I have started keeping a diary of sorts by way of this blog. I looked back over last year to the summer and find I didn't have much activity at all to report for August, having just finished describing my blindfolded trip around Hampton Court Maze, which took place anyway some time even before then. I wouldn't mind doing that again ….. Chris?

This summer has been a bit different and more exciting on the blindfolded scene. I haven't yet had the opportunity to try my final unaccompanied trip yet. Glad it wasn't today, much too hot outside, so I'm having my more usual temping job this afternoon in the cool of Chris's office.

Regarding my forthcoming outing by myself though. Regarding my fear of crossing the main road finally at the bus stop, Chris came up with two half-hearted suggestions.

One was that I should wear, for the whole trip, what he calls a 'Hi-vis' jacket! He has one or two in his office that he wears on his visits to building projects. Hi-vis is short fort for High Visibility, a fairly light-weight jacket in a Day-glow, almost luminous yellow colour, that you see a lot on road-menders and such these days. No thanks, I said. Just what I don't want! I try to keep a low profile on my blind-simming trips.

His second half-hearted suggestion arose from something we had both seen occasionally in town.

Old people at crossings simply hold their white stick out horizontally in front of themselves, even raised a bit and just charge out across the road, assuming any traffic will just give way. Not for me thank you, I said, unless you want to collect me from the local hospital. These people are obviously partially sighted. My trouble, being completely blacked out, would be that I might veer off in the middle of the road and begin walking down the road instead of across it!

Next time I'll tell you how I have managed – provided I do manage.

Jane

Wednesday, 12 August 2015

Conclusion to Dry Run 4. 12/08/2015


Continuing from last blog then.

If you remember, I am doing my usual blindsimming outing but with a difference as my 'guide' in the past, Tony, is in Australia for the summer. I am doing 'dry runs' on a slightly different route escorted by brother Chris in order to convince myself that I can next time do it alone and unaccompanied – at least until I have to cross the main road to catch my return bus. We haven't come up with a solution to that problem yet.

I got as far as the bus stop last time where, again as usual, the bus driver made sure I got off the bus alright and met up with Chris waiting there, he having parked further back in the village as there was nowhere to leave the car at this point on the busy road.

Chris then suggested that I found my own way to the gate and walk up the lane. He would keep a long way behind, he said. That all went well even though I was now completely blacked out by the eye-patches, just as I really like it. Through the gate at the other end and I heard no sound of Chris but I had heard the bull-finches – a piping call – that I knew were in a copse of trees about halfway up. I turned to my right and using my stick now on my right side passed the two seats and approached the third. There was someone there. I could hear two lady's voices and realised someone was sitting on the seat, now just on my right hand side. I asked if there was room for me to sit down and of course there was and they soon started talking to me in a general way. Chris arrived very soon after and joined in the conversation. The girls were Scottish, on a walking holiday here in Sussex and were aiming now for the Seven Sisters, the high cliffs next to the sea about 10 miles across the South Downs before going into Eastbourne, where they had overnight accommodation booked. He helped them with their map and pointed out that the most direct way was down the lane that we had just come up.

He explained to them that we were siblings and he was accompanying on my walk. Yes, he said, I was totally blind but quite able to get about with my white stick, preferably accompanied, of course. Then, to my surprise, he told them that the type of blindness that I suffered (!) from meant that I had to wear patches over both my eyes in any bright light, and suggested that I remove my dark glasses to show them, which I did! They seemed to accept this as not unusual. He further explained that he was on the way to a meeting in Eastbourne (no, they didn't want a lift!), said he had to run back to the village to collect the car and, if they didn't mind, could I walk down the lane with them as far as the main road where he would be along soon in the car to pick me up? Of course, they willing agreed.

Chris went off and after a while, they too were ready to go and off I went with them. They were most considerate but not used to walking with a blind person and between them I was virtually 'frog-marched down the lane – very slowly! I can walk at a normal pace if I am holding someone's arm – not someone holding my arm – years of practice!

So all went well after that and Chris reckoned that I had passed the final 'dry-run' test. He has since thought up how I can avoid crossing the busy road – the only hitch to our plans – and I am looking forward to my solo effort soon – not eye-patched though!

Jane.

Wednesday, 29 July 2015

Dry Run 4, 29-07-2015.






So last week I had the final accompanied pratice for my solo blindsimming outing and glad to say that I passed the test, set by Chris, my brother and blindsimming mentor.

Back to our second dry-run for a moment, when we got caught in a thunder storm and heavy rain, I had said to Chris that my darkened glasses, my 'non-vis' pair, as I refer to them, although usually more than satisfactory for these outings, were not completely blinding as I definitely would prefer them to be. Although I can hold my hand in front of my face and not see a thing, although I haven't a clue what the bus driver (or my bird-watching friend, Tony) look like, light does creep in around the edges so that I can see, or not so much see as sense, when I go from dark to shade, when I walk from sunlight into the shadow of trees, and certainly that day, when the lightning flashed so that I expected to hear the thunder before it came.

When I'm blindfolded with my scarf, tied doubled as I've described from time to time, then I'm really blind. I can stand in a room at home and not know where the window is, for instance. But I've only gone public blindfolded like that, once in recent years. That was my early mornig expedition to the Maze at Hampton Court in London (see our web-site). I can't expect people like the bus driver and others to take me seriously if I just have a scarf tied over my eyes.

I didn't expect to hear any more from Chris on the subject, but he had given it some thought. So for my fourth and final 'dry run' last week, he picked me up as usual and explained what he had meant when he said that I was to have a 'real' test that day.

Once in the car, he produced some self-adhesive patches he had acquired from somewhere. (You may remember that I used them overnight on my 24hour+ excursion to a bird 'watching' conference with him.) Today, he said then, I was to be truly blind but nothing to fear on my part as he would be with me all the time – or most of the time, he added. On other occasions, wearing my blacked out 'non-vis' glasses, I am confident that if something really went wrong, I could just take them off. Fortunately, I have never had to do so.

Without thinking too hard, I agreed to go along with the plan. Sitting in the car ready to go, he carefully stuck the patches into position and handed me my 'non-vis' glasses to put on. Yes, I was truly blacked out. He knew his way to my usual dropping off place, next to the pedestrian crossing that I use when unaccompanied and off we went. I had taken my 'Kwell'!

Half an hour or more later, he pulled into the side of the road and told me it was safe to get out and he would see me later at my destination bus-stop.

I climbed out, stood on the pavement and heard Chris drive off.

Suddenly, I felt for a few seconds that I was completely lost. I wasn't sure where I was. I had a flash of total panic. I was completely blind, no light at all. It was the sudden change from the comforting blackness of the car-ride to being outside alone. I had to assume I was at the normal place where I change from into my 'non-vis' glasses and where I realised that I have had a lsat seeing look towards the bus stop, orientating myself before going blind. This time I couldn't do it. I wasn't even sure if I was facing in the right direction. And then as quickly as I was lost I was found again, back on familiar ground, as a woman's voice nearby asked if I wanted to be helped across the road – I was obviously at the pedestrian crossing at least. Thank you, I said, but no. And thinking quickly, I asked instead if I was right for the school gates. As I've described before, I pass these in my more usual trips towards the bus-stop. Yes, this helpful lady said, suddenly a bit too helpful, taking my arm. She would take me there! I was by then able to collect my thoughts and explained that the school was just a 'staging point' on my way to the bus-stop further on. Needless to say she then guided me all the way to the bus-stop before leaving me to go off elsewhere.

After that, everything went back to plan, catching the bus and meeting up with Chris.

However, I had another adventure that day yet to come which I'll write about next time.

Jane.

Wednesday, 15 July 2015

Blinsimming: Dry run 3, 15 -07-2015




I have now done my third solo-practice blindsimming 'dry run'. All as last time until I got off the bus. The driver told me as he helped down the step that my friend was waiting for over by the gate. Previously Chris, and Tony (now in Australia) for that matter, have met me at the bus stop itself.

This was different and I heard Chris say that he was over by the gate at the bottom of the lane and I should go across to him. Which I did, no problem so far. At the gate, Chris said that I should go through it by myself this time and start up the lane. He would follow behind. So, in a stick-sweeping mode, as to a stick-tapping mode, off I went, following the verge on the left-hand side as I had practised before. Glad to say it was all remarkably easy both up to the top gate, then along the concrete path alongside the water's edge to, not the first, but the third seat now on my right-hand side where I stopped for a cup of tea. The first time we went, we sat on the first seat we came to and were invaded by waddling and quacking ducks who thought they were going to get some food! I was carrying a thermos and some lunch in my ruck-sack (or what ever they are called nowadays). Chris caught up with me after a few minutes, having made no real contribution en route. Very promising

Next week, he says I will have a real test but wouldn't disclose any detail.

I will report back then.

Jane.

Wednesday, 8 July 2015

'Dry Run' for my solo blindsimming 8-07-2015


Chris and I have now done a second 'dry run' of my planned solo blindsimming outing, a reaction to the absence of my bird-watching friend, Tony, for six months in Australia.

You will have read last time of our first effort in some (boring, I expect) detail.

I have adopted the term 'dry run' defined as - a practice event that is done to prepare for an actual event that will happen in the future – with tongue in cheek since this second trip was a bit different.

We followed the same plan as far as the first trip I described last time, until meeting up as I got off the bus Chris had left his car in the nearby village, as there was no place to park at our eventual meeting place, and hurried along to help me off the bus just in time again. It had been lovely hot summer days since the beginning of the week and I hadn't thought to check the weather forecast the previous evening. So, as I was travelling with Chris anyway, I had not bought my hooded raincoat which I nearly always wear on the train and out of the town on these trips, and carry later, so that I can be incognito, unrecognised, when blindsimming in public anywhere near home where people might otherwise know me.

As I had been blind since before even getting on the bus, I had not noticed the big black clouds building up over the Downs towards the sea. Luckily Chris did see them just as he was parking the car and had thoughtfully brought along a couple of umbrellas from the car in case we did get a bit of rain.

Just as I got off the bus and grabbed Chris's waiting arm, I heard the thunder which I hadn't heard before in the noisy bus. Don't worry, said Chris, we are alright, it is some way off.

I found my own way to the gate at that end of the laneand got through it and started up towards the reservoir, tapping my way along the left-hand verge. Less than five minutes later there was an enormous clap of thunder right over head, preceded by a flash of lightning which I even saw, my non-vision glasses being not quite that, as I have explained before.

Then equally suddenly, down came the rain in torrents. We were soaked even before Chris got the umbrellas open.

There was no shelter to hand, so we just kept going. My blindsimming skills seemed to disappear. I found I could not manage my white stick at all well while holding an umbrella over my head. And the sounds, which I depend quite heavily on, disappeared in the hiss of the rain and the noisy pattering on the umbrella. It was an experience I had never had before. On the few outings where it had rained, there was always shelter of some sort or a car close to hand.

We kept going and thankfully the clouds rolled away (Chris told me) and the sun came out (I didn't have to be told that) and we soon dried out. So much for a 'dry run'!!

On the whole though, I managed the walk quite well, most of the time Chris walked slightly behind me telling me if I was heading for any obstacles, which now included some quite deep puddles to avoid. The same procedure as last time when we eventually returned to the main road, although no way devised yet to resolve crossing that busy main road. He went off to fetch the car, picked me up and I spent a pleasant afternoon on the beach reading, while he was at his meeting.
Jane

Wednesday, 1 July 2015

New blindsimming expedition 1st July 2015


As I wrote last time, Chris is persuading me to do my 'bird-watching (!)' blind-simming outing alone, now that my friendly 'guide' has gone to Australia for six months. Chris is going to do the route with me, one morning each week for a few (four perhaps) times, bus ride and all, to persuade me it is achievable and safe, and allow me to practise (blindsimming of course as before) and get confident to do it all on my own.



So, the first attempt took place last week.

He picked me up at home early in the morning, after husband had gone off to his office in London, of course. Needless to say with a few changes to the plan.

To get me into the right frame of mind, he blindfolded me with my scarf for the car journey. I have to take a travel-sickness pill, a 'Kwell' for these longer journeys which is ok but does make me sleepy. Of course, I know the first part which I travel by train by myself before going 'blind' and I was awake enough to guide him to the usual spot where I do normally, as this time, put on my blacked out wrap-around dark glasses, take out my foldable white stick and then find my way to the bus-stop at the right time to catch the bus.

This is the point where the plan changed. Jos waited in the car long enough to see that I got onto the bus, then drove off at speed, parked in the village where I usually got off, there being no parking space at the point where we were going to meet up again. He then ran (!) out of the village and managed to get to this next bus stop before the bus, with me, arrived there.

I had explained to the bus driver that I wanted to go beyond my usual stop to the next stop and to give me a shout, please, when we got there. He did just that, came and helped me off and asked if the man waiting there was the one I expected as he wasn't the usual one who met me in the village. I explained that all was in order and off he drove. We were on a different day to my usual trips but the bus drivers seem to have got to know me now after quite a few years of me doing this trip.

It was a lovely sunny morning as Chris walked me (still blindsimming) slowly up this road to the reservoir, telling me what was there, I walking on his left next to the verge, counting steps approximately, listening carefully to his description of any features – farm entrance on the right halfway, etc - and imagining it all as we went, then back down again, I again on that same verge, now on his right. All seemed straightforward enough, certainly not many people around on this route.

Then came the snag which may abort the whole plan – what to do on return to the end of the lane, now having to cross the busy country road to the bus stop for going back. Easy in the village before as my bird-watching friend dropped at the returning bus stop in the village and at the right time for a bus back to the railway station. But this last week Chris left me near the bus stop, ran back into the village, got his car, came back and picked me up. Only a ten minute or so wait. I went on with him then and I spent a nice afternoon in the town where he was holding his meeting. Not blindsimming any longer, regrettably.

We are going to do it again this week and think about the road crossing so I will keep you informed.

Jane.

Wednesday, 17 June 2015

new blindsimming expedition june 17th 2015


See last weeks blog.

Chris, my brother, thinks that I can carry on with my blindsimming visits to to the Bird Sanctuary alone (!) without my bird-watching friend who has gone off to Australia for six months.

Chris occasionally visits a building project which takes him past the village and lake/reservior where we have been going. Up to now, my friend met me off the bus and drove me up to the reservoir car-park, which I now know is at the north end of the reservoir. The south end, where there is the concrete dam which forms the reservoir and has a footpath which goes right round the reservoir is nearer to the village but not on the road to the car-park. Realising this, Chris then discovered that if I went one bus stop further on, out of the village and got off, there is another road up to the reservoir belonging to the Water Authority, with a gate so that only their traffic can use it, but which is open to pedestrians (walkers) and is therefore a good surface for me to follow safely right up to the water-side.

Remember that I start my blindsimming well before I get on the bus at the other end and that my friend appears to accept that I am totally blind (as I am then, almost), I have never seen the village nor the lake nor the Bird Reserve, nor even the bus, for that matter. I've seen the photo that Chris put on our website though.

So I was very doubtful about Chris's proposal.

However he is going to do the route with me, one morning each week for this month, bus ride and all, to persuade me it is okay and allow me to practise (blindfolded of course as before) and get confident to do it all on my own.

I will keep you up-to-date.
Jane

Wednesday, 3 June 2015

3rd June 2015 Summer coming on now.


As you will have gathered, I love blindsimming.

I am also most interested in birds (feathered variety)

Some bird enthusiasts are called “twitchers”! They charge about the country after rare birds and tick them off on the approved list of around ?? species in Britain alone.

Most enthusiasts though, call themselves bird watchers and many have their own “patch”, a local area that they know well and go to see the birds and watch their movements etc. They are particularly interested in migrants that come to Britain from overseas – summer visitors or winter visitors.

I don't belong to either of these categories. I think the “twitchers” are bonkers – as my friend Lucy thinks I am., they often cheat and frighten both the birds and the people living around where-ever they arrive with their powerful telescopes.

However, I can't call myself a bird watcher either. The only birds that I watch are out of the Kitchen window or else in passing when out socialising locally. (Me, I mean, not the birds!) I haven't even got binoculars.

Why am I telling you this?

If you go to my website, or read through my earlier blogs here, you will read about my birding outings with a very polite and helpful birdwatcher who appreciates my well developed bird sound recognition skill and believes that I have developed this to compensate for my total blindness when I'm with him, usually fortnightly. However in high summer and deep winter, we only meet up once a month

He is retired from work, otherwise he obviously wouldn't have the time to spend bird-watching as he does. Now that the summer visitors (birds) have all arrived. He is off to Australia for six months to visit relations there and see all the sights.

Help! What am I going to do for the next six months for my blindsimming outings?

Find something else to write about?

Jane.

Wednesday, 13 May 2015

blindfolding or blindsimming or both, of course


Wednesday 13th May.

I am in brother Chris's office with an half-hour to kill before I am blindfolded and have to get on with the telephone answering and tea making duties etc.

I haven't mentioned it before but I am on Facebook! Chris saw to that, needless to say and I am on there as Jane Blindfolded if anyone wants to look me up. The Face book pages that I have seen are all other blindfold fans but only, it seems, showing off photos of themselves ( they claim) and their 'friends'. We only have the one photo of me blindfolded and Chris has found one or two others for our web-site and this Facebook page.

Not much anywhere in words (!) about my favourite subject except one person (woman probably) who describes her blindsimming episodes. Un fortunately we can't find that particular page again – there are so many different pages and people, I find it all rather confusing.

I noticed this particular person because she said she loved to go out blindfolded and, it seemed, simply ride around on buses and on one occasion at least in a taxi. The driver said, after being asked to drive somewhere and she had put on her blindfold, he said - have a good sleep then and I will wake you when we arrive! Not quite my cup of tea!!

I do travel on a bus, as you will remember me describing, but once outdoors I am definitely a 'Blindsimmer' enjoying knowing (or hoping anyway) that people I have contact with believe me to be blind (as indeed I then am) and treat me appropriately. At home as well, when blindfolded, I enjoy that again, but also enjoy being able to do things – playing the piano, changing the beds, loading the washing machine, making my lunch, etc.etc. I am proud of my ability to get around at home and away from home, then using my other senses and my white stick, now after many years practice, in a very accomplished manner.

I hope I still interest you readers out there but it is becoming difficult to think up things to write about. I would love to hear from some of you, preferably via – me_blindfolded@yahoo.co.uk

Chris is now hovering, scarf in his hands, so I'll finish,

Jane.

Thursday, 7 May 2015

6/5/2015 - No suggestions from anybody, so.......


This, as far as can be ascertained is a true story. (like everything I have written on my favourite subject – blindfolds!)

Louis La Guerre (1663-1721) was a French Decorative painter who painted -No! Not blindfolded maidens, to Chris's disappointment, but mainly battle scenes as murals. Especially with that name of his! Whole walls in large houses depicting battles, so large that they turned out to be virtually life-sized, battles in which the owner might have taken a prominent part.

Such was commissioned by an important English Duke who had taken part in the wars between England and France at that time and had built himself a large house in the centre of London. In particular he required the painter to decorate the walls of the main grand staircase with battle scenes featuring the Duke in full dress sitting on his charger (horse, stupid, sorry!). Why a French painter should agree to paint French losses at battle is curious.

A hundred years or so later, the Duke's descendants moved back to their original estate in the country-side and the London house, with its murals still intact, was passed to the Government and eventually used as a main residence for important families.



Many years ago, the upper floor was in use by an elderly widowed Lady, a Dowager of some importance, who had two grand-daughters who often visited her as they lived only a quarter of a mile away in an even bigger grander house. When they first visited at an early age they were probably accompanied by a parent but when they became old enough to visit by themselves, or be driven by their chauffeur, then they suddenly became aware of the battle scenes and particularly some of the more gruesome details.

Half way up the first flight of stairs there was a dead soldier – in the painting, I mean! In the foreground, his half-severed arm appeared almost to be drooping out of the mural and there was blood drying over his battered head.

On the first unaccompanied visit, the younger sister refused to go up the staircase at all. Her sister suggested that she simply closed her eyes, held onto the handrail and run quickly up. This she did and that was okay for the next visit or two. But then she got a bit braver and stopped on the way up and peeped through half-closed eyes, giving then a little scream and running the rest of the way up as before. Next time, her sister, being the usual sort of 'bossy' sibling (like Chris!) instructed that she should tie a scarf over her eyes to prevent what she now saw as cheating on the younger sister's part. A scarf was to hand downstairs and so up she went, now securely blindfolded, holding firmly onto the handrail as before.

However, once the elder sister's attention was freed from this particular matter, she herself suddenly spotted another gruesome detail on the next flight up. This time, again in the foreground another gruesome detail. Lying on its back, legs kicking apparently in the air, and with staring eyes, obviously just shot from under its rider, was a horse. (Someone's 'charger', no doubt.) This elder sister had, what turned out to be, a life-long passion for riding and for horses. She couldn't bear to look at it more than once. It took no time for her to decide that she, too, would have to climb the staircase blindfolded.

We are told that for some time then, for visits by the two girls, they started blindfolded at the entrance to the staircase and were met at the top, both still blindfolded, by their grandmother.



Maybe the front door was opened by a maid, who was designated to have two suitable scarves to hand and who enjoyed blindfolding the two girls in the hall-way before taking them to the bottom of the staircase. Maybe they were met at the top by the grandmother and led, yet still blindfolded, into her apartment and who herself enjoyed organising some childish games for the blindfolded girls before releasing them for their tea and cakes?



How am I reasonably sure this (apart from the 'maybe's!) is true?

Chris was involved in some refurbishment work at the house recently and was told about it by the current house-keeper, who said it was general knowledge within the current family and their predecessors. He even arranged for me to get into the house early one morning and see the murals and even talk to the house-keepr (I was introduced as Chris's 'Business Support Co-ordinator' for the purposes of a security pass?!) It was all quite something, I can tell you!



The house is not open to the Public for visiting, nor is it likely to be, so I feel quite honoured.

Jane

Thursday, 23 April 2015

No more on videos after this! 22/05/2015


My objections to 'starring!' in a video of my trip to meet my bird-watching friend are two-fold

(i) I don't want to be accompanied by a 'camera crew' or by anyone at all since my main pleasyre is doing the trip as best as I can without any help except that I always seem to get from the occasional passer-by and from the bus driver. They all think I'm blind and that's the impression I like to give.

(ii) I certainly do not want to be securely blind as Accro Delajupe suggests by self adhesive patches or his even more frightening suggestion. My confident approach to outdoor blindsimming is because if anything awful happened – a mugging (unlikely the way I dress and the route and time of day that I travel) or being knocked down by a quietly approaching cyclist or worse -then I can just whip off my darkened glasses and be fully sighted to deal with it. I've never had to take that extreme step yet, I'm very happy to report.

BUT.... you both, and perhaps others (if there are more readers out there!), would go along with Chris's (my understanding brother, you may recollect) suggestion that he videos my Friday morning session on a day when my more-recently met friend, Lucy, comes round to my house for her blindfolded piano playing lesson – see our website (page 10). My immediate objection was that she would never agree to it. She thinks I'm bonkers to even think of going outdoor at all blindfolded. Chris was quick to point out that she, being blindfolded, would have no idea that she was being videoed and his video camera is very silent anyway!

His suggested scenario ( ? ) is that he would first video me blindfolding myself and, to entertain the rest of you out there, I would put on self adhesive patches, which I have only used twice (overnight) when we were away for a bird watching week-end. Then – I would secure them in place with a second set of patches, just for the effect (he would think that!) - then tie on my usual scarf blindfold. When Lucy arrived, he would position himself on the staircase landing upstairs, out of Lucy's range of vision and video me blindfolding her as I usually do as soon as she is inside. The he would creep around behind us as we went through our routine. He liked the idea of me handing over a stick for her to find her way whilst I was able to get around happily, purely on my experience of my own home. Piano playing, Lucy is quite good now and lunch would all be faithfully recorded.

Well, he can live in hope, I suppose!
Something different next week, if I can think of something!
Suggestions very welcome

Jane

Wednesday, 25 March 2015

Solar Eclipse not seen! 25-03-2015

In last 500 years, there have been only eight total solar eclipses visible from the UK. Next one will be in 2026, so I wasn't going to miss my 'Once in a lifetime' chance last Friday, even though at 9.30 in the morning it would disrupt my regular Friday blindfolded session and, as it turned out, also Lucy's fortnightly piano lesson. So, just a little disappointed, I arranged to delay Lucy's visit until later in the morning and didn't blindfold myself at my usual Friday morning time of eight o/clock, once I know husband is safely on his train into his London office. I sat then waiting for the eclipse to start, colander an a piece of paper to hand (colander, for you people overseas perhaps!? is a stell saucepan-sized kitchen strainer – a bowl with lots of round holes) with which you can project images of the eclipsing sun through the holes onto a piece of paper.
But at 9.00 it was grey and cloudy, so thick that during the time of the eclipse it didn't even darken and, as for the birds which are supposed to stop singing and return to ttheir nests, there were none singing in the first place. Very diasppointing to those of us in the South-East of England, except curiously enough, the cloud did break up over Ashdown Forest – highish moorland not far away and the very place where I didn't see the visiting eagle when my bird-watching friend took me up there last summer. See previous blog.
Well then, I did manage to blindfold myself before Lucy arrived for her own blindfolded visit and we did spend time commisserating on the lack of seeing anything of the eclipse.
But then of course, blindfolded as we were, we were both happily eclipsed in the end!
Thanks for your recent comments, Accro delajupe and 'eyes.patched' I'll get back to those after Easter now,
Happy Easter,
Jane.

Wednesday, 18 March 2015

Spring has arrived perhaps 18-03-2015


Spring arrived in Southern England last week (although gone again this week!) and we had several lovely days. My bird watching companion, Tony, got in touch and I had a lovely morning out, blindsimming and bird listening. If you haven't read about these outings of mine then go to our web-site – meblindfolded.wix.com/blindsimming-lady -page 11. (together with previous blogs here). I have an old, but robust, large-keyed mobile phone which I use only for blindsimming purposes and only Chris and Tony have the number. Tony has to ring me to talk about arranging outings, knowing that it is no good sending text messages as he believes me to be completely blind – quite flattering for me after several years now with him on occasional bird 'watching' outings. Meeting him off the bus last week then, he gave me (just to hold) a large heavy book which he said was the Sussex Bird Survey Atlas, published a year ago, listing all the bird species, each with its own map and descriptions as surveyed in Sussex a few years ago by volunteers such as him and, to his pride, listing his name in an Appendix at the back together with mine!!. (So he said – I couldn't see it for myself, of course.) He said he had submitted my name together with his as I had helped so much at the time identifying bird calls and songs and there it was (he said) on page 603. I have looked in our local library since but they didn't have a copy – too specialist, they said!

I managed all the bus and walking completely blind perfectly okay, even though out of practice since my last trip out last Autumn. I'm going to try to expand the trip a bit, it's almost getting to the boring stage now.

More next time then,

Jane.

Wednesday, 4 March 2015

blindsimming videos continued 4-3-2015


'Eyes.patched' (thank you) suggests we make our own video! since I mentioned that we have seen none that have been in English.

The main reason I have for wishing to see one in English – from someone else, of course, not me, - is to find out, as I would have liked to do in the Spanish, German, French ones, if the blindsimming girl is doing it for a stunt, sponsorship or if she's doing it because (like me) she just really likes being blind(folded) for a period.

Sorry about all the commas and brackets!!

As for me as the subject of a video: Ha! I am far from being a good-looking girl like those in those three videos, I would be too self-conscious, and I mostly enjoy my blind-simming trips because I am alone and the fun is in finding my own way around with only occasional and unprompted help from others. If I knew there was a 'camera team' close by, it would spoil the whole thing for me – difficult to explain why but you may know what I mean?

We saw a travel film on the TV a little while ago where the subject announced that, having got to a certain point (in the African bush or somewhere), his camera team were leaving and returning to the base camp. However we carried on seeing video of him progressing on his journey! So much for real verisimilitude (I looked it up!) of such travel accounts.

Chris is, of course keen on the idea and says he has the right sort video equipment which he sometimes uses for his building project surveys but 'no way', I tell him. He says we could do a video of one of my office afternoons. Can you imagine anything more boring? Answering the phone occasionally and making the tea! It won't happen!!

Jane

Thursday, 26 February 2015

Ref: those videos 25/02/2015


Thanks, Accro Delajupe, for your comment to last weeks blog.

Yes, I (we) enjoyed the videos you referred to us last November – very interesting.

For those who missed these at the time and my December response, here they are again-



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jm17mXOoscU (The German one)

http://www.mitele.es/programas-tv/21-dias/temporada-2/programa-10/ (Spanish)


http://nemesistv.info/video/YD7D5X1OWKAH/21-jours-aveugle# (French)





A very attractive Spanish girl for a start. Chris and I sat for the whole hour in his office watching this. Only wish we could understand Spanish though!!

One (of many possible) comments – I was always worried in the old days that if I wore eye-patches, over both eyes of course, as all three do in the videos, the patches would show at the edges if I wore darkened glasses over them – as they do in fact in the videos. In those circumstances, it does not matter, but with me, out by myself posing as a blind woman, I wouldn't want others to see the patches, thus giving me away as a fraud.

In the German video, the eye patches are interesting having this black inner lining. What is it made of? It does look as if it might be uncomfortable but, as you say, possibly more efficient in excluding all light. That would appeal to me.

The shot where she appears to be standing alone in the street and then raises her dark glasses, exposing her patches to any onlookers is different. The patches don't look uncomfortable in that shot.

I now wish I could understand German. It would be interesting to hear why they are undertaking this simulated blindness.

Then the French one, although somewhat different lands us with the same language problem!

Anyone found anything like these videos, but in English?!

Jane.

Thursday, 19 February 2015

So far so good, but.....?


Chris tells me that I have been blogging for a year now and made 27 blogs, about one a fortnight!

As you will have gathered, I write these on the afternoon that I 'work' as a 'temp' in his office, blindfolded for most of the remaining time to entertain us both!

I am running out of ideas though and it may be difficult to contribute, even only once every two weeks ( I set out at the start to make it a weekly blog but that hasn't worked out, it seems)

Any suggestions in our comment column would be most welcome or even to me at – me_blindfolded@ yahoo.co.uk - if you are shy of using the blog response.
Jane

Wednesday, 11 February 2015

11-feb-2015


Each January at home, one of us has to take down the Christmas decorations which my husband carefully and painstakingly put up before the festival. Traditionally, it has to be done by Twelth Night, which this year fell on the first Monday that husband went back to the office, so the task, as usual, fell to me. I don't mind this at all and have been doing it for some years now – it's easier when he is out of the way for the day - and it means also that I can do it in a most enjoyable manner : blindfolded!

I can bring forward my Friday routine which has had to be postponed for some weeks over the Christmas period, but instead of the usual house-keeping tasks and with no piano tuition to fit in, I will take down the decorations instead.

So, soon after husband has disappeared down to the station and having checked my breakfast and lunch arrangements (and my diary for that matter!), I bandage my eyes securely in the manner I've described from time to time. I have been studying the decorations carefully over the last few days, standing in front of the Christmas tree for instance to count and commit to memory the items hanging on it, and together with the paper chains and ornaments, most of which are conveniently pinned to the picture rails (wooden strip around the room about seven feet off the ground on which pictures are supposed to be hung in old-fashioned houses like ours.

So, on that Monday back in January, I make a start (having by then been blindfolded for a couple of hours already). The tree is relatively easy, so I stand close to it, finding the baubles and dropping them into a box at my feet. I count carefully but there is always two or three at the end which take a bit if groping about to locate.

Then the more difficult part. Again relying on memory, and standing on the Kitchen stools that I have moved in and being just the right height for me, I feel my way about, carefully unfix the dawing pins which I put painstakingly into a pocket in my apron. Painstakingly is an appropriate word here, I have trod very painfully on to dropped drawing pins in past years. I just let the chains drop onto the floor for the time being and clear up after.

I used to put each one separately into a box in the middle of the room, but found that I got dis-orientated very easily, losing my way back to the next chain..

There is that particular buzz which I hope I share with some of you who read this blog. That is being blindfolded and thinking I have found my way, by feel only, to a particular place, and then I am surprised to find that I am not at all where I was expecting to be. I might sometimes even have difficulty finding out where I actually am! As I said in a recent blog, I can get myself lost in my own home! Not that I mind when dismantling the decorations but more than once does use up more time than I intend. This year I finished and tidied away in time for my lunch which, like any Friday morning, I eat before having to reluctantly remove my blindfold.

Husband came home that evening, moved the Christmas tree outside and pointed out that I had left a bell behind the sofa. Well done me, I thought.

Jane.