Wednesday, 15 July 2015

Blinsimming: Dry run 3, 15 -07-2015




I have now done my third solo-practice blindsimming 'dry run'. All as last time until I got off the bus. The driver told me as he helped down the step that my friend was waiting for over by the gate. Previously Chris, and Tony (now in Australia) for that matter, have met me at the bus stop itself.

This was different and I heard Chris say that he was over by the gate at the bottom of the lane and I should go across to him. Which I did, no problem so far. At the gate, Chris said that I should go through it by myself this time and start up the lane. He would follow behind. So, in a stick-sweeping mode, as to a stick-tapping mode, off I went, following the verge on the left-hand side as I had practised before. Glad to say it was all remarkably easy both up to the top gate, then along the concrete path alongside the water's edge to, not the first, but the third seat now on my right-hand side where I stopped for a cup of tea. The first time we went, we sat on the first seat we came to and were invaded by waddling and quacking ducks who thought they were going to get some food! I was carrying a thermos and some lunch in my ruck-sack (or what ever they are called nowadays). Chris caught up with me after a few minutes, having made no real contribution en route. Very promising

Next week, he says I will have a real test but wouldn't disclose any detail.

I will report back then.

Jane.

Wednesday, 8 July 2015

'Dry Run' for my solo blindsimming 8-07-2015


Chris and I have now done a second 'dry run' of my planned solo blindsimming outing, a reaction to the absence of my bird-watching friend, Tony, for six months in Australia.

You will have read last time of our first effort in some (boring, I expect) detail.

I have adopted the term 'dry run' defined as - a practice event that is done to prepare for an actual event that will happen in the future – with tongue in cheek since this second trip was a bit different.

We followed the same plan as far as the first trip I described last time, until meeting up as I got off the bus Chris had left his car in the nearby village, as there was no place to park at our eventual meeting place, and hurried along to help me off the bus just in time again. It had been lovely hot summer days since the beginning of the week and I hadn't thought to check the weather forecast the previous evening. So, as I was travelling with Chris anyway, I had not bought my hooded raincoat which I nearly always wear on the train and out of the town on these trips, and carry later, so that I can be incognito, unrecognised, when blindsimming in public anywhere near home where people might otherwise know me.

As I had been blind since before even getting on the bus, I had not noticed the big black clouds building up over the Downs towards the sea. Luckily Chris did see them just as he was parking the car and had thoughtfully brought along a couple of umbrellas from the car in case we did get a bit of rain.

Just as I got off the bus and grabbed Chris's waiting arm, I heard the thunder which I hadn't heard before in the noisy bus. Don't worry, said Chris, we are alright, it is some way off.

I found my own way to the gate at that end of the laneand got through it and started up towards the reservoir, tapping my way along the left-hand verge. Less than five minutes later there was an enormous clap of thunder right over head, preceded by a flash of lightning which I even saw, my non-vision glasses being not quite that, as I have explained before.

Then equally suddenly, down came the rain in torrents. We were soaked even before Chris got the umbrellas open.

There was no shelter to hand, so we just kept going. My blindsimming skills seemed to disappear. I found I could not manage my white stick at all well while holding an umbrella over my head. And the sounds, which I depend quite heavily on, disappeared in the hiss of the rain and the noisy pattering on the umbrella. It was an experience I had never had before. On the few outings where it had rained, there was always shelter of some sort or a car close to hand.

We kept going and thankfully the clouds rolled away (Chris told me) and the sun came out (I didn't have to be told that) and we soon dried out. So much for a 'dry run'!!

On the whole though, I managed the walk quite well, most of the time Chris walked slightly behind me telling me if I was heading for any obstacles, which now included some quite deep puddles to avoid. The same procedure as last time when we eventually returned to the main road, although no way devised yet to resolve crossing that busy main road. He went off to fetch the car, picked me up and I spent a pleasant afternoon on the beach reading, while he was at his meeting.
Jane

Wednesday, 1 July 2015

New blindsimming expedition 1st July 2015


As I wrote last time, Chris is persuading me to do my 'bird-watching (!)' blind-simming outing alone, now that my friendly 'guide' has gone to Australia for six months. Chris is going to do the route with me, one morning each week for a few (four perhaps) times, bus ride and all, to persuade me it is achievable and safe, and allow me to practise (blindsimming of course as before) and get confident to do it all on my own.



So, the first attempt took place last week.

He picked me up at home early in the morning, after husband had gone off to his office in London, of course. Needless to say with a few changes to the plan.

To get me into the right frame of mind, he blindfolded me with my scarf for the car journey. I have to take a travel-sickness pill, a 'Kwell' for these longer journeys which is ok but does make me sleepy. Of course, I know the first part which I travel by train by myself before going 'blind' and I was awake enough to guide him to the usual spot where I do normally, as this time, put on my blacked out wrap-around dark glasses, take out my foldable white stick and then find my way to the bus-stop at the right time to catch the bus.

This is the point where the plan changed. Jos waited in the car long enough to see that I got onto the bus, then drove off at speed, parked in the village where I usually got off, there being no parking space at the point where we were going to meet up again. He then ran (!) out of the village and managed to get to this next bus stop before the bus, with me, arrived there.

I had explained to the bus driver that I wanted to go beyond my usual stop to the next stop and to give me a shout, please, when we got there. He did just that, came and helped me off and asked if the man waiting there was the one I expected as he wasn't the usual one who met me in the village. I explained that all was in order and off he drove. We were on a different day to my usual trips but the bus drivers seem to have got to know me now after quite a few years of me doing this trip.

It was a lovely sunny morning as Chris walked me (still blindsimming) slowly up this road to the reservoir, telling me what was there, I walking on his left next to the verge, counting steps approximately, listening carefully to his description of any features – farm entrance on the right halfway, etc - and imagining it all as we went, then back down again, I again on that same verge, now on his right. All seemed straightforward enough, certainly not many people around on this route.

Then came the snag which may abort the whole plan – what to do on return to the end of the lane, now having to cross the busy country road to the bus stop for going back. Easy in the village before as my bird-watching friend dropped at the returning bus stop in the village and at the right time for a bus back to the railway station. But this last week Chris left me near the bus stop, ran back into the village, got his car, came back and picked me up. Only a ten minute or so wait. I went on with him then and I spent a nice afternoon in the town where he was holding his meeting. Not blindsimming any longer, regrettably.

We are going to do it again this week and think about the road crossing so I will keep you informed.

Jane.

Wednesday, 17 June 2015

new blindsimming expedition june 17th 2015


See last weeks blog.

Chris, my brother, thinks that I can carry on with my blindsimming visits to to the Bird Sanctuary alone (!) without my bird-watching friend who has gone off to Australia for six months.

Chris occasionally visits a building project which takes him past the village and lake/reservior where we have been going. Up to now, my friend met me off the bus and drove me up to the reservoir car-park, which I now know is at the north end of the reservoir. The south end, where there is the concrete dam which forms the reservoir and has a footpath which goes right round the reservoir is nearer to the village but not on the road to the car-park. Realising this, Chris then discovered that if I went one bus stop further on, out of the village and got off, there is another road up to the reservoir belonging to the Water Authority, with a gate so that only their traffic can use it, but which is open to pedestrians (walkers) and is therefore a good surface for me to follow safely right up to the water-side.

Remember that I start my blindsimming well before I get on the bus at the other end and that my friend appears to accept that I am totally blind (as I am then, almost), I have never seen the village nor the lake nor the Bird Reserve, nor even the bus, for that matter. I've seen the photo that Chris put on our website though.

So I was very doubtful about Chris's proposal.

However he is going to do the route with me, one morning each week for this month, bus ride and all, to persuade me it is okay and allow me to practise (blindfolded of course as before) and get confident to do it all on my own.

I will keep you up-to-date.
Jane

Wednesday, 3 June 2015

3rd June 2015 Summer coming on now.


As you will have gathered, I love blindsimming.

I am also most interested in birds (feathered variety)

Some bird enthusiasts are called “twitchers”! They charge about the country after rare birds and tick them off on the approved list of around ?? species in Britain alone.

Most enthusiasts though, call themselves bird watchers and many have their own “patch”, a local area that they know well and go to see the birds and watch their movements etc. They are particularly interested in migrants that come to Britain from overseas – summer visitors or winter visitors.

I don't belong to either of these categories. I think the “twitchers” are bonkers – as my friend Lucy thinks I am., they often cheat and frighten both the birds and the people living around where-ever they arrive with their powerful telescopes.

However, I can't call myself a bird watcher either. The only birds that I watch are out of the Kitchen window or else in passing when out socialising locally. (Me, I mean, not the birds!) I haven't even got binoculars.

Why am I telling you this?

If you go to my website, or read through my earlier blogs here, you will read about my birding outings with a very polite and helpful birdwatcher who appreciates my well developed bird sound recognition skill and believes that I have developed this to compensate for my total blindness when I'm with him, usually fortnightly. However in high summer and deep winter, we only meet up once a month

He is retired from work, otherwise he obviously wouldn't have the time to spend bird-watching as he does. Now that the summer visitors (birds) have all arrived. He is off to Australia for six months to visit relations there and see all the sights.

Help! What am I going to do for the next six months for my blindsimming outings?

Find something else to write about?

Jane.

Wednesday, 13 May 2015

blindfolding or blindsimming or both, of course


Wednesday 13th May.

I am in brother Chris's office with an half-hour to kill before I am blindfolded and have to get on with the telephone answering and tea making duties etc.

I haven't mentioned it before but I am on Facebook! Chris saw to that, needless to say and I am on there as Jane Blindfolded if anyone wants to look me up. The Face book pages that I have seen are all other blindfold fans but only, it seems, showing off photos of themselves ( they claim) and their 'friends'. We only have the one photo of me blindfolded and Chris has found one or two others for our web-site and this Facebook page.

Not much anywhere in words (!) about my favourite subject except one person (woman probably) who describes her blindsimming episodes. Un fortunately we can't find that particular page again – there are so many different pages and people, I find it all rather confusing.

I noticed this particular person because she said she loved to go out blindfolded and, it seemed, simply ride around on buses and on one occasion at least in a taxi. The driver said, after being asked to drive somewhere and she had put on her blindfold, he said - have a good sleep then and I will wake you when we arrive! Not quite my cup of tea!!

I do travel on a bus, as you will remember me describing, but once outdoors I am definitely a 'Blindsimmer' enjoying knowing (or hoping anyway) that people I have contact with believe me to be blind (as indeed I then am) and treat me appropriately. At home as well, when blindfolded, I enjoy that again, but also enjoy being able to do things – playing the piano, changing the beds, loading the washing machine, making my lunch, etc.etc. I am proud of my ability to get around at home and away from home, then using my other senses and my white stick, now after many years practice, in a very accomplished manner.

I hope I still interest you readers out there but it is becoming difficult to think up things to write about. I would love to hear from some of you, preferably via – me_blindfolded@yahoo.co.uk

Chris is now hovering, scarf in his hands, so I'll finish,

Jane.

Thursday, 7 May 2015

6/5/2015 - No suggestions from anybody, so.......


This, as far as can be ascertained is a true story. (like everything I have written on my favourite subject – blindfolds!)

Louis La Guerre (1663-1721) was a French Decorative painter who painted -No! Not blindfolded maidens, to Chris's disappointment, but mainly battle scenes as murals. Especially with that name of his! Whole walls in large houses depicting battles, so large that they turned out to be virtually life-sized, battles in which the owner might have taken a prominent part.

Such was commissioned by an important English Duke who had taken part in the wars between England and France at that time and had built himself a large house in the centre of London. In particular he required the painter to decorate the walls of the main grand staircase with battle scenes featuring the Duke in full dress sitting on his charger (horse, stupid, sorry!). Why a French painter should agree to paint French losses at battle is curious.

A hundred years or so later, the Duke's descendants moved back to their original estate in the country-side and the London house, with its murals still intact, was passed to the Government and eventually used as a main residence for important families.



Many years ago, the upper floor was in use by an elderly widowed Lady, a Dowager of some importance, who had two grand-daughters who often visited her as they lived only a quarter of a mile away in an even bigger grander house. When they first visited at an early age they were probably accompanied by a parent but when they became old enough to visit by themselves, or be driven by their chauffeur, then they suddenly became aware of the battle scenes and particularly some of the more gruesome details.

Half way up the first flight of stairs there was a dead soldier – in the painting, I mean! In the foreground, his half-severed arm appeared almost to be drooping out of the mural and there was blood drying over his battered head.

On the first unaccompanied visit, the younger sister refused to go up the staircase at all. Her sister suggested that she simply closed her eyes, held onto the handrail and run quickly up. This she did and that was okay for the next visit or two. But then she got a bit braver and stopped on the way up and peeped through half-closed eyes, giving then a little scream and running the rest of the way up as before. Next time, her sister, being the usual sort of 'bossy' sibling (like Chris!) instructed that she should tie a scarf over her eyes to prevent what she now saw as cheating on the younger sister's part. A scarf was to hand downstairs and so up she went, now securely blindfolded, holding firmly onto the handrail as before.

However, once the elder sister's attention was freed from this particular matter, she herself suddenly spotted another gruesome detail on the next flight up. This time, again in the foreground another gruesome detail. Lying on its back, legs kicking apparently in the air, and with staring eyes, obviously just shot from under its rider, was a horse. (Someone's 'charger', no doubt.) This elder sister had, what turned out to be, a life-long passion for riding and for horses. She couldn't bear to look at it more than once. It took no time for her to decide that she, too, would have to climb the staircase blindfolded.

We are told that for some time then, for visits by the two girls, they started blindfolded at the entrance to the staircase and were met at the top, both still blindfolded, by their grandmother.



Maybe the front door was opened by a maid, who was designated to have two suitable scarves to hand and who enjoyed blindfolding the two girls in the hall-way before taking them to the bottom of the staircase. Maybe they were met at the top by the grandmother and led, yet still blindfolded, into her apartment and who herself enjoyed organising some childish games for the blindfolded girls before releasing them for their tea and cakes?



How am I reasonably sure this (apart from the 'maybe's!) is true?

Chris was involved in some refurbishment work at the house recently and was told about it by the current house-keeper, who said it was general knowledge within the current family and their predecessors. He even arranged for me to get into the house early one morning and see the murals and even talk to the house-keepr (I was introduced as Chris's 'Business Support Co-ordinator' for the purposes of a security pass?!) It was all quite something, I can tell you!



The house is not open to the Public for visiting, nor is it likely to be, so I feel quite honoured.

Jane